2 Corinthians 7

Paul addressed some issue the Corinthians had against him. He stated that he hadn't done anyone wrong and even though they were holding a grudge, he felt no ill will in return. Instead he thanked them for the reception he and Titus had experienced the last time each had visited. He apologized for upsetting them, but showed them how their sorrow was turned to good because it produced in them repentance and godly characteristics.

People let us down (knowingly or unknowingly), and when they do we need to be sure we're not overreacting. Get the facts and act rationally. Be honest about your contribution to the problem. If there really was wrongdoing on the other person's part, try to settle the matter without a bitter heart. Think of how you would want to be treated in the same situation and act accordingly. Before you list all the things the person has done wrong, list some positive things about them and see if your attitude doesn't soften a little.