2 Corinthians 10

Paul answered allegations that he was writing harsh letters while away and being rather meek and unimpressive in person. He wrote that he was the same person in the letters and in person. He didn't mean to scare them with his letters, but he would not stop bringing up his credentials. He was working well within the limits of the responsibilities God had given him.

Empty boasting and overinflated egos have no place in the body of Christ. We each have responsibilities from God and we each have someone that God has put in our lives to counsel us. There is no reason for pride in and of ourselves - only pride in what God has done for us and given to us. At the same time, we need to practice humility in listening to those who have been put in authority over us.